Natural Social Skills

When was the last time you started a conversation with a group of seated women in a social environment like a bar or party? A couple? A group of five or more women? A group with six guys and one woman? A group of all guys? One dude standing alone?

If you answered “not recently” or “not ever”, you are missing out on all kinds of possibilities, not just the possibility of meeting a great woman.

It seems to me there are at least two major schools of thought in this game. The first, and possibly more popular, is the “target the hot girls and deal aggressively with potential threats from other guys.” Personally, I find this approach tiresome, difficult and not a lot of fun. My goal is to have a rich and varied social life and to get to know the myriad of fascinating people in the world. Read the rest of this entry »