Natural Social Skills

I’ve been noticing a process that occurs when men start learning how to meet women. At first, we take on the role of a cool, social guy by learning it from other guys who really understand how to go out, have fun and meet interesting people. This may be an uncomfortable and awkward character to play for people who have never lived this way. The role, however, helps us discover the truly attractive traits that we already possess. Soon, you realize you already have the raw components and many, if not all, of the words or routines fall away when you’ve internalized this new perspective. You don’t become an attractive man, you discover you already were one.

What you are really conveying through words and action is that you are an interesting person who doesn’t have to settle, that you have a full and varied social life and that you are not dependent on anything or anyone to satisfy you. Read the rest of this entry »